SESSION ONE: The Unique Key to Fixing Your Marriage
· The #1 reason executives fail when trying to save their marriage.
(This behaviors is also recognized by top Executives coaches at the number one reason for career derailment.)
· Five steps to lasting change and emotional connection (these same steps drive successful business leaders.)
· An agricultural principle that will cause your marriage to blossom.
· Focus on problems and your marriage is over. (Married Love doesn’t sweep problems under the rug, but neither does it focus on them—learn to live emotionally connected in the present and going forward.)
SESSION TWO: Without This Essential, Your Marriage Is Doomed.
· Draining the toxic emotions of bitterness and resentment from past hurts is the starting point for turning your marriage around. (If you can’t do this, Married Love isn’t for you!)
· Why overcoming an unforgiving spirit is an essential key to successfully restoring your marriage---(First, you need to learn how to forgive yourself.)
· By following these five steps, you and your spouse can free yourself
from the emotional bondage of the past. (This isn’t easy, it takes time, but patiently working on this is will bring unbelievable results into your marriage—this is also essential for success as a business leader.)
· Acting “as if” restores honor, trust, and intimacy in your marriage. (This requires a great deal of mental discipline, but a powerful skill in turning your marriage around..)
· Managed emotions allows you to express your hurt in a respectful manner. (Keeping yourself under control when emotions are strong is essential.)
SESSION THREE: What Is This “Thing” Called Love?
· Cultural barriers to understanding love.
· A definition of love supported by thousands of years of marital experience (and confirmed by current relational research.)
· Moving from infatuation (feeling drive actions) to committed love, (actions drive feelings.)
· How to keep the fires of intimacy alive.
· Punch the right button and get the response your want. (Understanding the needs cycle is the lost key that will open the heart of your spouse.)
SESSION FOUR: Building A Marriage Connection That’s Can’t Be broken!
· A solid foundation of trust is essential as you work on being best friends and emotional reconnection (learn how to maintain/regain the trust of your spouse.)
· Drifting: the silent killer of friendship and intimacy with your spouse.
· This one behavior will tell you if you are drifting, how far you’ve drifted, and how much effort it will require stop the drift and start growing.
· “Almost” fool proof actions that can turn your marriage around. (“Almost” is a qualifier, but I’ve yet to see couples who demonstrate these behaviors to one another on a regular basis stay disconnected.)
SESSION FIVE:
· Ask this one question to save your marriage. ( I will coach you through a step-by-process to keep you and your spouse romantically connected and best friends for life.)
· Knowing the difference in talk “about” your relationship or discussing the logistics of marriage is essential for lasting connection.
· Miss the answer on this one and you will soon be emotionally divorced. Unique coaching on this question will jump-start the behaviors of married love.
· Practicing these principles will increase the depth of emotional connection, friendship, and give you tools to release negative energy in a way that builds the relationship. (Communication and conflict resolution skills are not designed to reconnect a relationship, but they are a must in order to maintain connection.)
SESSION SIX: Sexual Chemistry
· Sex talk! Guidelines on how to share your sexual needs with your spouse. (Couples are uncomfortable talking about sex because they don’t know how.)
· Understanding how to appeal to gender difference is the match that lights the fire of passionate sex.
· Three types of sex: understanding the why, when, where, and how of the three types of sex will keep you intellectually, romantically and sexually connected.
(Couples who practice the three types of sex enjoy an intense level of emotional connection.)
