“Over the last several years our marriage was slowly going down hill. The coaching we received from Married Love made us both realize that we needed to stop pointing the finger of blame at the other and accept personal responsibility for the condition of our marriage. It hasn’t been easy, but we are slowly turning things around.”
D.T.
Dear Mike,
“Your coaching on the importance of forgiveness made the light come on in both of our heads. Barb and I both were carrying around a bag of anger created by our lack of forgiveness. Neither one of us have every had an affair, but we have been guilt of yelling hateful names and slurs at one another over the years! Your steps of forgiveness have helped us learn to draw a line in the sand and start over. This one coaching session has given us the key to turning our marriage around.”
Kurt & Barb
Dear Mike,
“Wow. I thought I was being helpful to my husband, but your coaching has helped me realize that I was a ‘control freak!” I recently had a 360 feedback session at work and my direct reports also felt I was a major ‘micro manager!’ The steps on ‘How We Change,’ has given me a handle on how to change the controlling that’s killing my marriage.”
Karla & Tim
Mike,
“Sex has been a major issue in our marriage. Your coaching sessions on the differences in men and women and the three kinds of sex has given us the insight to turn a major battle ground, sex, into a time of amazing fun and pleasure. Thanks for your candid coaching in an area that was a major source of contention.”
Jake
“You are truly a God send. Because of your sessions, Kara and I are on the right path to fixing our marriage problems. For that, we want to thank you!”
Kara & Bill
Mike,
“Your coaching on “quality time is a by product of quantity time,” caused both of us to take the time to go over our schedules. We are both busy professionals and didn’t think we had any extra time. Your idea about using our daily routine, such as shopping for groceries, as a time to be together sounded odd at first. However, we gave it a try and have found quantity time to spend together in our daily stuff…and like you said there have been some real quality moment in the isle of the supermarket Sounds crazy, but it works! Thanks for this unique insight and helping us to get connected again as friends.”
Tony & Kim
Mike,
“Thanks for your coaching in Married Love. We were headed for divorce and decided to give our marriage one last effort. I know that people can change, but I didn’t think it could happen in our marriage. My husband and I are classic high achievers and both very opinionated. I really didn’t think there was hope! Your first coaching session, “Change Yourself, Change Your Marriage,” wasn’t easy for either of us to receive. I’ve always felt Mark was the most arrogant and stubborn person in the world. However, session one made me finally stop and realize, as you put it “marriage is a duet, not a solo,” and that I was as stubborn in my own ways as Mark. Once we both got it through our thick heads that we need to change, it created a safe, non-threatening environment. Going through the coaching has been fun and has definitely turned our marriage around. ‘Thank you’ seems shallow, but both of us thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your
coaching.”
K.B.
Mike,
“We’ve been to counseling in the past, with no positive results. All we learned was what we were doing wrong! Married Love coaching has given us hope. As professionals, we like action items to drive change. The program is full of the actions we realize we need to make to help our marriage. We are both currently working on the steps to express our anger in ways that don’t attack and hurt. We realize that there is no ‘silver bullet,’ and this will take hard work and time to turn our marriage around. But we now have a plan and we have both made a commitment to change!”
Bob and Chelsea
Dear Mike,
Bev and I want to say “thanks” for coaching us in turning around what we believed was a hopeless marriage. Both very busy professionals, we’d decided to stay together because of the kids. Married Love has helped us turn hopeless into a hope filled marriage. The coaching on the behaviors of love has made all the difference. Learning to ask ‘the question’ that saves marriages has really saved our marriage. Again, thanks for an approach to marriage that avoids spending all the time on what’s wrong and giving us specific coaching steps on how to turn our marriage around!
A hopeful couple, Steve and Bev
